Dating younger women - I am that type of guy.


Hi David,

I hesitated a lot before starting typing up this email, but eventually I got over the "I don't think that David has the time to check his emails and to reply to each and every reply to his newsletters" and here I am: two and a half months ago I met this girl (I'm 37 and she's 33) and the very first night we met, we got to the point where we were ready to have sex... and that' when the alarm clock went off and I had to go to work. A few days after that we got together again, but nothing happened... something was missing. And before I knew it, I was only "her friend" who she would confide in about her depression, problems, etc. The chemistry part just wasn't there anymore. The very few times when she sat next to me watching movies and I tried to kiss her, she avoided it. What makes things worse is that while I really like her, I made every mistake in the book. I bought her stuff (mostly because she needed it and I thought I'd be at least a friend) and I spent a lot of time talking with her on the phone. Don't get me wrong, I'm capable of coming up with some funny stuff, but after a few hours of talking, anyone will run out wise cracks. Meanwhile, I don't seem to make the same mistakes with other women who gave clear signs of being interested in me, but I haven't gone too far with any of them... at least not yet. At this point I feel like saying "Next" in a way that she'll be aware of and move on... what do you think? While being out with another woman I realized that it was difficult to get my mind off of this girl... and what's even worse, while being with another woman who offered herself to me physically ( I refused to have sex with her and I left ) I kept thinking of this girl. What the hell is wrong with me? Would it be dishonest to get over her by being with another woman? If I do go that way, am I burning the bridges with this girl?

Dave, I don't mind if you don't get back to me... at least I know that writing all this stuff down has helped make my issues clearer...

Take care and have a wonderful day.

PS. I admire your work!

Tudor



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